Messy breakups can really aid your career and personal growth
After you’ve gone through a messy breakup experience
You may be asking yourself “What now?”
The post-breakup period is one that I actually, oddly, enjoy
That’s because we tend to be really connected to our heart then
In other words, we don’t live in our head!
I’d say the more messy the breakup the better!
Dramatic endings connect us to our hearts even more deeply
Offering a chance at greater self-exploration
In this way, the period after a breakup allows for a lot of self-discovery as the dust is settling down.
You might decide to learn new skills or find new interests
But a lot of those things may end up being a distraction from the pain you feel inside
I personally think that allowing yourself to grieve is necessary
However, it’s very easy to lose yourself in the grieving period
You don’t want to end up wallowing in your emotions and pain all the time
Or wake up realizing you’ve spent the last 2 years emotionally unavailable, feeling sorry for yourself.
That’s why I’d recommend anchoring yourself in a goal in the future
A personal mission, a calling, or an expression of your life purpose
These can serve as a stable compass as you process your emotions
In this way, the post-breakup period can be changed to a time of great self-discovery
One that can improve your life forever
One than can change your career forever
One that can finally get you to follow a career you are passionate about
Rather than one that just gives you good money but no satisfaction
Or this might be a time when you finally realize what it is that you truly want to pursue
You don’t want to stagnate
You want to keep on moving, growing, healing
And hopefully you want to be the best version of yourself possible
While keeping your heart open.
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And finally, this journey can be tough when done on your own
Hell, once it took me 2 years to course correct!
If you want to save yourself sometime
And save invaluable months or years of your life
That you might otherwise lose trying to figure things out on your own
And you feel that you’d benefit from having an experienced guide to accompany you through this work
And help you anchor in the future
Reach out to me and let’s talk about how I can serve you.
